Character
Makes the Man
A Better You
Character Makes the Man
What is Character?
Individuals possess good character or bad character. Our character is a habit, the way we think, speak, or act, by nature. Character is usually determined by a presence of – or lack of – moral and ethical strength. Good character helps us distinguish between right and wrong. The choices we make in daily life reflect the type of person we are.
Character Makes the Man
What is Character?
Individuals possess good character or bad character. Our character is a habit, the way we think, speak, or act, by nature. Character is usually determined by a presence of – or lack of – moral and ethical strength. Good character helps us distinguish between right and wrong. The choices we make in daily life reflect the type of person we are.
Right choices
from individuals make for a better world, and to bring this home – a better
dating relationship: Good character strengthens relationships by promoting a
relational intimacy that isn’t available to those with a bad character.
Set Apart by
Your Character
Many of us consider ourselves good judges of character. But, if you had to analyze your own character, would you pass the test? Be honest with yourself as you ask the following questions:
Many of us consider ourselves good judges of character. But, if you had to analyze your own character, would you pass the test? Be honest with yourself as you ask the following questions:
1. Do you walk
with integrity?
Are you what you say you are; or are you inconsistent and misleading?
Are you what you say you are; or are you inconsistent and misleading?
2. Are you
honest?
Do you speak the truth, and keep your promises, even when it hurts; or are you evasive, dishonest, or sneaky?
Do you speak the truth, and keep your promises, even when it hurts; or are you evasive, dishonest, or sneaky?
3. Do you
respect others?
Are you courteous and reverent; or do you slander, look down on, or condemn the actions of others?
Are you courteous and reverent; or do you slander, look down on, or condemn the actions of others?
4. Are you
compassionate and kind-hearted?
Are you concerned and sympathetic; or are you cruel-hearted or indifferent?
Are you concerned and sympathetic; or are you cruel-hearted or indifferent?
5. Are you
self-disciplined?
Are you careful and calculated; or are you slothful or indulgent?
Are you careful and calculated; or are you slothful or indulgent?
6. Do you
despise wickedness?
Are you shocked by evil deeds; or are you immune to them, as long as they don’t affect you first-hand?
Are you shocked by evil deeds; or are you immune to them, as long as they don’t affect you first-hand?
7. Do you value
those of virtue?
Do you show a regard for good character; or do you take it for granted?
Do you show a regard for good character; or do you take it for granted?
8. Are you known
by the company you keep?
Are you around good people who make good choices; or do your friends bring you down?
Are you around good people who make good choices; or do your friends bring you down?
9. Are you
reliable?
Are you trustworthy; or questionable and unreliable?
Are you trustworthy; or questionable and unreliable?
10. Are you
faithful?
Are you worthy of trust; or are you disloyal and backstabbing?
Are you worthy of trust; or are you disloyal and backstabbing?
11. Are you
sincere?
Are you straightforward; or two-faced and complicated?
Are you straightforward; or two-faced and complicated?
12. Are you
generous?
Are you hospitable and lavish; or stingy and meager?
Are you hospitable and lavish; or stingy and meager?
13. Are you
patient?
Are you accommodating and easy-going; or easily ruffled and angered?
Are you accommodating and easy-going; or easily ruffled and angered?
14. Are you
humble?
Do you behave modestly; or are you overbearing and arrogant?
Do you behave modestly; or are you overbearing and arrogant?
Time for Change
Maybe you have good intentions, but found that you didn’t do well on the self-analysis. Don’t give up yet. Character is a habit, and habits can be developed. I read once that even when a tree has been chopped down, there is still hope. As long as the tree has roots in the ground, it still has a chance of developing new sprouts. Development of good character is possible when we are willing to work on our value system.
Maybe you have good intentions, but found that you didn’t do well on the self-analysis. Don’t give up yet. Character is a habit, and habits can be developed. I read once that even when a tree has been chopped down, there is still hope. As long as the tree has roots in the ground, it still has a chance of developing new sprouts. Development of good character is possible when we are willing to work on our value system.
We have a sense
of moral goodness to drive our conduct – it’s called our conscience. Good character can be developed as we make a deliberate effort to
utilize our conscience to advise us to do the right thing. It’s necessary to
learn how to incorporate actions that will develop the habit of good character.
Woodrow Wilson
said, “If you think about what you ought to do for other people, your character
will take care of itself.”
Our conscience
is always faithful to warn us, and instruct us, in the right direction.
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